24 hours TV was over! and summer is over soon! Not until the ARAFES! XDD I got my goods last week and they were fabulous! I never thought that our Mirakuru Tensai would be that brilliant!!! He got my wallet!!!
Nothing new from Nino. I don`t think we would have Nino`s dorama next season. >.< *crossing finger for winter* Oops, the Platina Data DVD will out this month! I can`t wait to watch it for .... times! XDD
Reading this article made me think that Nino is sooooo like a Japanese man! Though he is!
EXPRESSING LOVE
In the middle of shooting, he was looking at far yet his conscious was facing the camera. He showed his will in the middle of idle talk than doing a serious talk. Nino`s way to express his feeling is always in casual manner like a wind blows or scudding clouds.
It`s not easy to reach out someone especially with words. The more you know the meaning and the dignity of those words, the more frightening you to use it. That`s why I don`t want to speak out my feelings and my circumstances, much less I don`t want to leave it behind. (lol) I wrote a letter to Arashi`s member once for TV show but I only mail them if there`s something to be done. And so do they. I was happy when I got a letter from a child who I worked with, but more than his words, I appreciated his deed to write it. Whether at work or in my private live, I don`t put the emphasis to words that has delivered or could be delivered, and also I won`t rejoice or get worried by those words.
He said that he didn`t favor delivering expression too much relianced on words.
The possibility of words is limited and there is also a fear of hindering the imagination of the listener. For example, I don`t want to speak out the answer of the tricks that have been prepared in a piece of work easily. It`s like snatching away the pleasure of the audiences to think of it. Though there`s also the time when you disclose the tricks in order to enjoy it again by the time passing. Don`t you think if you intend to know the answer in advance, you won`t think or feel it earnestly anymore. It applies to everything. People is like that. It`s difficult to deliver about that people with words. I think that there`s no merit of summarizing what kind of people are you with words.
Boys like something objective and girls like something inter-personal. That`s why they can`t understand each other (lol).
It`s not only me who doesn`t want to speak his mind out but that`s the characteristic of man. Man doesn`t speak out his feelings or leave it behind because they are the living thing who doesn`t feel the necessity of chat. Conversely, Woman is the living thing who needs to speak, right (lol). That`s why man is suited with objective and woman with interpersonal. Hey, most of the chef are man but the one who teach in the cooking class are mostly woman. That means the first person`s job is facing the silent ingredients and the later person`s job is `teaching others` or you can say, build a communication. The specialty of man and woman is clearly could be seen. (lol) That`s why regarding to romance, woman want to share and drive her feeling with words. I know that but I`m bad at handling it. (lol)
Nino could feel the feeling of the expression that not represented with words.
I think man could feel that the woman he is dating with is looking at him by her action like before he knew she has already tidy up the mess that the he did or decorates flowers on the table. It would give more impact than receiving many `I love you` mails. People who deliver his feeling with words is kind of a straight person and must be not a lie. But just with `I like you`, it makes me think that she just like that person. Because she likes him, she would think what makes him happy and show it in action. I could feel her feeling that way. Even though they are dating but there`s no changing between them, so there`s no meaning being together. Whether she asks in return or not, I think the girls who can show their love with actions and their existence are splendid. They must be popular and loved. However, even she was really exist, I couldn`t get her. It must already be someone`s girl, right! It`s like a popular property, even though you wait for it, it won`t be vacant. (lol)
So, what is “the way to deliver your feeling” for you?
Of course, I won’t say any words and even I won’t try to act that would be easy to understand. I don’t really care if she realized or not. (lol) Than try to express it strongly, I think the personality who try to hold back her feeling suits me the most. For example, I was the one who spent 100 thousands yen for my friend’s birthday, don’t you think my friend would feel bad if I kept giving him that kind of present every year? My impression to him is just someone who spend 100 thousands yen (lol). There’s no meaning to give him present if he felt burden. If so, it would be better if I spent that 100 thousands yen not in a day, but spent it little by little in a year. If so, maybe he wouldn’t realize it and wouldn’t burden him. That’s my ideal. I have no problem if my feeling didn’t reach him because I don’t intend to push him over.
The point for your sympathy to others was really deep. But, don’t you feel lonely if your feeling didn’t reach him?
I don’t think so (lol). But, whether it reached him or not, that wouldn’t make me get a new friend or lost it. Also, I don’t think that would make me get hated in the work place. Perhaps, that kind of my thought has reached everyone in some ways…
It's a very interesting interview. I always get amazed by Nino's way of thinking. Thank you so much for translating and sharing it. I'm glad that I found this blog, it's great! good job!
Posted by: Monica Daiana | 09/28/2013 at 05:51 PM
Thanks for reading and your comment! ^^
Posted by: Humz | 10/01/2013 at 10:13 PM